{"id":350,"date":"2020-05-17T11:16:01","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T19:16:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/?p=350"},"modified":"2020-05-17T11:16:01","modified_gmt":"2020-05-17T19:16:01","slug":"things-i-learned-from-my-grandmother-3-shrug-it-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/2020\/05\/17\/things-i-learned-from-my-grandmother-3-shrug-it-off\/","title":{"rendered":"Things I Learned from My Grandmother (#3): Shrug it off"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>My grandmother and grandfather were both very strong headed and they would argue quite a bit. I remember watching one argument that went back and forth for a while until my grandmother finally said something that stopped the argument without ending it by winning or losing the argument. She said something like, \u201cWell, okay,\u201d and shrugged it off.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned that at any time you can stop arguing and just shrug it off as, \u201cDifferent people think different things.\u201d Sometimes it\u2019s better just to get on with your life, especially if it preserves a valued relationship.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My grandmother and grandfather were both very strong headed and they would argue quite a bit. I remember watching one argument that went back and forth for a while until my grandmother finally said something that stopped the argument without ending it by winning or losing the argument. She said something like, \u201cWell, okay,\u201d and &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/2020\/05\/17\/things-i-learned-from-my-grandmother-3-shrug-it-off\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Things I Learned from My Grandmother (#3): Shrug it off&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-350","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/350","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=350"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/350\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":351,"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/350\/revisions\/351"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mitchelljoe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}